7 Things Americans Don't Really Say & What You Should Say Instead

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Today I want to talk to you about seven things that native English speakers don't really say

and what you should say instead

That's coming up

(Intro)

What's up everyone, my name is Wes

This is interactive English, which is all about helping you guys practice and improve your English skills today

I'm gonna tell you seven things that native English speakers

We don't really say but these are things that you may have also learned or or have heard when you're studying English in the classroom

I want to tell you what these things are and what you should say instead. What's more common?

What do people actually say in everyday conversation? The first one is it's just a greeting and that is how do you do?

How do you do?

How do you do? This is something that it's it's a very old greeting. It's very formal

Nobody really uses it anymore. And if you do say this to another person, it's just gonna sound a little awkward

It's gonna sound a bit peculiar and they're gonna wonder like wow, I I have not heard that greeting in an awful long time

So please stay away from how do you do and use one of these greetings instead. How's it going?

How are you? If you want to be a little more informal just say you know, what's up. How's it going?

Howdy

What's up?

So you may be wondering how you can get away from these phrases that people don't really use and learn the vocabulary

And expressions that native English speakers actually do say all the time that are very common in everyday English

well

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then we have a response to a greeting and this is something that

It's almost like it's become a part of English learning culture. And the response is I'm fine. Thank you and you?

Just just don't say this, all right, this is not a a proper response when somebody asks you you know

How are you? First off it just sounds robotic second in English

It's not common to thank somebody after they ask them. You know, how's it going go?

I say Oh, how's it going and say oh, I'm good. Thanks for asking. It's just it's not something that happens

So this is not a common occurrence

We don't say it and neither should you so if somebody asks you how's it going?

And you respond with I'm fine that that is perfectly okay, but it's also very common to just tell someone you know

I'm good, or I'm great. Those are also very popular responses. Are you I'm fine. I'm fine

How are you? Good? And how are you? I'm great. I am great

The next one is just a word and that is Shou

And this is just old

English because Chou is just used with the the subject pronouns I and we

Just just means will we're talking about the future

And the reason why I'm bringing this up is because you will still find this in certain English books today

Even though you are not really going to hear this in spoken English

you could also use it as a suggestion with I or we like shall we leave a comment and

And instead of saying you shall I'd say you should because shall replaces should in that case

so again

If you're talking about the future just use will or be going to don't worry about shall and if you're talking about

Suggestion you should next is just another single word

And that is whom now whom has just been it's just been overtaken by who even though to be grammatically

Correct whom is is still used. You will find it especially in written English

but again

we're talking about things that people say so the difference between

Who and whom who is used in the subject position and whom is used in the object position? It's important

Is that is that we're having a baby is that it doesn't matter who came on through

That's right

The word whom is used most often with questions because when we're talking about the direct object and it's an unknown person

Chances are you're asking a question? For example, you could ask

Whom should we ask for help? But again in spoken English? It's more common

People are just gonna say who should we ask for help or maybe?

Whom would you like to speak to and then if you really want to be grammatically, correct?

You shouldn't end a sentence with a preposition. You'd have to put it before whom and say

to whom would you like to speak but this just sounds

Very old very very formal people don't use it anymore

You're not gonna hear somebody say this they will just say

Who would you like to speak to?

The next thing that people don't often say but you might think they do take a look at these

These phrases right here and I will explain this I am going to I do not like, okay

You're probably looking at this thing and whoa, wait people use this all the time

but again

These are things that people don't often say that's the key word right now

Speaking and if we're talking about spoke in English instead of saying I am going to the park

Somebody is going to say I'm going to the park they're going to use the contraction

I'm instead of I am instead of saying I do not like green vegetables

I'd say I don't like green vegetables. Yes. That's true. I don't really like green vegetables. I know I should like them

They're very healthy for you. But yes, I don't like green vegetables

But my point is is this most of you you may be familiar with contractions and you've learned them before and that's great

Just keep that in mind when you're speaking and you're having a conversation

It is so much more common to use actions instead of the full form. It's also very useful for your listening comprehension

Because you are going to hear

Contractions as well and you should be able to identify these words quickly and not have to think much about them

So contractions very very common

This is what people say another phrase

that people don't really say or at least it's a question and they don't ask this question as often as you might think and

That is just how's the weather?

So the reason why I chose this is because when you're learning English vocabulary, especially as a beginner

Vocabulary about the weather is some of the first things that people learn you want to be able to talk about the weather

but at the same time

People don't often just have random

conversations about the weather if there is extreme weather for example

If it's snowing or it's really hot

Then yeah, or it's raining a lot then people might talk more about the weather

But this question when it comes to learning English is more about practicing English than it is about

Practical English because I don't know when the last time I just ask somebody. How's the weather?

It's not something that you're gonna go out and you're gonna talk to people and meet people

And you're just gonna start talking about the weather automatically. I said them. How's the weather in Hawaii? They said great

It's in the 80s low humidity

Doesn't speak English fluently. Thank you

So keep that in mind the next time you meet somebody and you're having a conversation and you're thinking okay

I don't know what to say next. So I'm gonna jump in there

I'm gonna talk about the weather what you should do instead is talk about those things that are interesting to you

What are you interested and what books are you interested in reading?

What activities are you interested in doing?

If you talk about those things then perhaps you can find something in common

With that other person and that's a more natural way to have a conversation

than just talking about these artificial topics such as the weather then we have an idiom and that idiom is

Raining cats and dogs now, don't get me wrong. I think it's great to learn idioms

Especially for your comprehension because people use idioms all the time

the reason why I'm putting this up there raining cats and dogs is because when you're learning English idioms,

I think this is often one of the first idioms that people learn people learn idioms

Like piece of cake something's easy or they might say Oh raining cats and dogs

Because we love talking about the weather even though you would learn this idiom

We don't really say it that much. I just say, you know, it's raining hard

I don't really say well it's raining cats and dogs. You may hear it from time to time

You may hear it. If you're watching a TV show or movie said it was going to rain cats and dogs

Wow, it is raining cats and dogs out there, but it's not one that people use often in spoken English

So instead of saying it's raining cats and dogs

Just sound a little more fluent like a native speaker and saying wow

It's raining really hard now

you

know seven things that we do not say and what you should say instead and if you found this lesson useful

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